Reviews from RealSelf
I have never felt more confident in my life
I have never received so many compliments on my skin. A close friend of mine said to me yesterday, Wow your skin looks amazing. I confided that I did Botox. She said she did as well and her skin never looked that way mine did! Was I born with good skin? No. So it absolutely matters who your provider is and Dr. Shafer is the best!!! I have never felt more confident in my life, so pleased with the results. Just this morning my husband said this is the best I have looked in years.
Beautiful results - 9 months post lower face & neck lift & fat grafting
Coming up on 9 months post lower face and neck lift with fat grafting and I couldn’t be happier! Dr. Shafer is warm and honest in his approach. During the consultation he listened to my concerns and was excellent at explaining the surgical process. He made the recommendation of adding the fat grafting and I am so happy I did. My neck and jawline are beautiful and the fat grafting added the volume my face needed for balance. He is an artist. The staff was wonderful as well.
Can't recommend him enough - unmatched attention to detail
I came to Dr. Shafer for arm liposuction based on many amazing reviews from my peers. I was originally meant to have my procedure at another office but once I met Dr. Shafer and his staff I knew I would be in great hands. From my consult to the day of my surgery and even a year after they've been incredible. The attention to detail and care by him and his staff are unmatched. I wish I did more of my body with him during the first procedure because I'm back again for more! In my line of work I meet many cosmetic and plastic surgeons but I truly trust and respect Dr. Shafer with my health and appearance. I can't recommend him enough.
Facelift, blepharoplasty and fillers - very happy with the results
Dr. Shafer is a real artist! He has perfected his craft. I had fillers, facelift, and eyelid surgeries done and I am very happy with the results. He is also very kind and friendly, with great bed side manners. I highly recommend him.
Best facial in the world - I would never see anyone else
The best clinic in NYC!! Their facial therapist Edyta is amazing!!! It’s an excellent xperience!! She’s an artist!!! I would never go see someone else for my facial!! I highly recommended her. The staff is wonderful!! Dr Shafer is the best surgeon in Manhattan. Elegant office!!
I have cute, perky breasts instead of pendulous 36DDD breasts
On 4/28/22, I had a breast reduction at the Shafer Clinic in Manhattan. I am a 62 year old woman who experienced difficulty breathing and exercising, as well as finding appropriate clothing. From my initial consultation to my follow-up visits, everything and everyone has been wonderful! Dr. Shafer, Tedra, Amy, Mirjeta... all worked their magic to make me feel comfortable and confident. The procedure itself was a breeze with minimal pain and discomfort. Most importantly, now I have cute, perky breasts instead of pendulous 36DDD breasts. I feel so much better, physically and psychologically. Thank you, Dr. Shafer!!!
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2nd SWAG procedure & best girth enhancement!
My experience was amazing with Dr Schafer. I went for my 2nd SWAG procedure. Hands down the BEST Dr for girth enhancement! Dr Schafer made me feel so comfortable and at ease. Take it from me, don't go anywhere else but to Dr Schafer for girth enhancement.
Flaccid penis b4 any procedures was length 3.0" and girth was 3.0" circumference. Erect Length 6.5" and circumference Erect 4.0"
After 10 syringes flaccid length 3.5" and flaccid circumference 4.5" Erect Length 6.5" and Erect circumference 5.0"
Just did my 2nd visit with 5 more syringes.
Flaccid length 3.7" flaccid circumference 5.0"
Erect Length 6.5" and Erect circumference 5.5".
I have another visit in June. My goal is 6.0" - 6.5" girth circumference. My pics are to large to post.
What an amazing doctor! My confidence level is at 100!
I was referred to Shafer clinic by my mamo technician. I was interested in breast implant and tummy tuck. Dr Shafer was so patient, took his time, listened to what I wanted and made it happen. He left me looking your again.. I am so in love with my results. His staff was so amazing. A huge thanks to Daniela his office coordinator who helped me each step of the way.
She even called me after surgery during the weeked to check up on me. Amy the nurse was great so cheerful and simply amazing. She was so patient and answered all of my questions. And trust me I had a lot. My overall experience in Shafer Clinic was amazing. Dr Shafer change my life, my confident level is at 100! Thank you Shafer Clinic you guys are amazing!
Finding RESTORATION Not Scary Fabrication!
I am writing this for YOU. The reader. Not The Shafer Clinic and Dr David Shafer because I know it would have been really helpful to hear from a real woman in process not marketing. I'm a world famous activist for women's relationship with their own body. So when I decided to realign my outsides to match my insides --- it was a big deal. Because, after all, my "brand" is body acceptance and self love. Find me in Oprah. And what is true is that deciding to undertake the restoration of me (not creating someone else) took time. I felt shame around wanting this. Shouldn't I age gracefully? And then, the realization that came for me: what is "Graceful" for me, may be something else for someone else. It took me a while to find The Shafer Clinic. I was honestly terrified as I spend so much time in front of the camera. What if I made the wrong choice? Well, my desires outweighed my fears, and a dear friend and colleague referred me to Dr. David Shafer. It's now Day 5 AFTER surgery. Life is not a before and after picture. Healing is a process and I am in it. I never required pain medication except for the first night and that was really to help me just sleep. On Day FIVE I have really turned a healing corner. I am starting to see the "me" that I recognize from years past. Not someone else. I love my chin. And I can't stop looking at my neck. I remember them!. It's like a reunion. I cannot express what all of this means to me. As I said, I live in front of the camera. And to have my insides reflected in my outsides feels so important to me. Dr. Shafer, is a restoration artist. I can see it happening and I am celebrating.
Many of us have fear of surgery. For me it was going to sleep. The talented anesthesiologist who cared for me during my procedure was off the charts in excellence.
I expressed to him my fear of going under. The not great experiences that I have had with going under. He was brilliant. I never felt that awful sensation of losing control, I just woke up. And I felt no ill effects.
The private duty nurses were brilliant. Amy Oziel, RN the Nurse Coordinator did a lovely job keeping in touch with me during my anxious filled post operative days. And yes, you may have them. It's normal.
Dr. Shafer, you have made a very deep desire manifest through talent, kindness and generosity. Thank you. I have the deepest of respect for what you have created. All of the members of your team have held me so gently, brilliantly and with great talent.
I also want you to know that I also worked with Jamie Gabel of Advitam.Health inside and connected to the Shafer Clinic who supported my healing with metabolic and vitamin therapy that is state of the art -- before and after the surgery. Highly recommend this.
Jamie, thank you for all the ppp care and support. I am looking forward to supporting the rest of me in this incredible year of restoration.
In a few days my stitches come out and I will be treated to state of the art laser treatments to reduce any scaring -- as well as therapeutic facials by the most talented and brilliant Aesthetician Edyta who also worked with me before surgery to prep my skin. So delicious as well as nutritious!
Anyway, I know that there can be complicated feelings about all of this. I get it. I had them. I did it anyway and I am thrilled as well as so proud of myself for having the courage to age the way I want to. I am a real person. You can find me on Instagram @thepamelamadsen
I hope this is helpful.
34 Yrs Old 355cc Medium Profile 130lbs
I am an athletic woman from NYC and had a plastic surgeon in mind (from a referral) had I ever decided I would actually get my breasts done. I did not want to be put of work long, didn’t want it to be obvious I had a breast augmentation and wanted a doctor who practiced and treated a lot of NYC women, because we are our own breed here and know exactly what we want.
I looked the other doctors reviews (which were ok, but sometimes you cannot only trust reviews), had a consult booked, but something told me to do a little more research on other doctors and JUST SEE if anyone else out there seemed like a better fit.
If you’ve looked up Dr. Shafer’s reviews, they don’t even seem to good to be true…i read them all, every where, and patients really love their experience with him. I did more research, followed him on Instagram (lol), and called and cancelled my other consult and booked it with Dr. Shafer’s office.
The actual visit to the office the first day sealed the deal. There was ZERO pressure, no questions, no need to pick a date, super flexible response about booking my procedure, no requests for further payments…nothing. It was a gracious meeting with the understanding from the office (without having to actually say it) that this is a huge decision I HAD TO MAKE ON MY OWN TIME. I made my boyfriend come with me, who is a cosmetic dentist and is suspicious of everyone, and he was blown away by the staff, the stunning office, the doctor’s credentials, the doctor himself, just everything.
I left the office and literally called that afternoon to see the earliest they could get me in.
Tedra perfectly explained and processed my payments and coordinated everything up to date and was there on the morning of my surgery (which added to good vibes right before surgery). Amy, the nurse, was funny and made me so comfy.
Dr Freeman was the anesthesiologist — and he just knows what he’s doing FOR REAL. I cannot handle anesthesia ever (or so I thought) and usually it’s worse than the actual procedure. I told him this the night before, explained I itch and vomit and even told them to plan for me taking a couple hours longer than normal people to actually leave the office and told my girlfriend to pick me up an hour later than what they advise.
After surgery Thursday morning, I literally popped up like a daisy!! Was in there at 8am and out by 10:30am. My gf came home and babysat me for the day and I literally came home and did not even need a nap that whole day. I took off work Thursday and Friday but really worked both days — answering all my emails from the couch. I cannot believe the anesthesiologist part of this honestly.
I really don’t believe any of it. The breasts are perfect and high for day 7 but everyday they look more and more beautiful. Nipples face perfectly, shape and size are perfect, and I’m not even kidding — the scars are almost gone (under breast).
I cannot believe I waited this long and I found myself crying the other day with happiness and gratitude for how perfectly everything went. You hear so many stories for the craziest things happening, you really NEVER know. Dr Shafer aint the cheapest…but who wants discount body augmentation?! I want to pay full price for anything having to do with my body and am so happy I did.
Dr Shafer is truly an artist and I am so so in love with my new breasts and happy with the whole experience.
Updated on 7 Sep 2021:
At the 6 week mark and I am so happy. I swore I would not be one of those girls who would have boob envy but I’m already wishing I went a little bigger lol. These are so perfect for my body and the recovery has been a breeze. Upset I waited this long to get them but know my age and wisdom helped me pick the absolute best doctor.
I find myself on this site a lot looking at what the recovery looks like because they first few weeks they did look really crazy and square, but now they are perfect.
Don’t pick the cheap option. Pick the guy with the best reviews and the best reputation. I feel so sad for some of these other reviewers and then I look at the doctor they used and can’t believe anyone would go to someone with 3.5 stars. This is your body! Make the best and safest choice! I am soooo happy I did!!
Updated on 7 Sep 2021:
So happy I chose a doctor with the best reviews!! Dr Shaffer is truly the best in NYC. I am so happy. Recovery has been a breeze. I have a little bit of boob regret and wish I had gone bigger but I know these are the right size for my body.
I can’t emphasize enough the important of your doctor’s reputation and reviews. I see girls on this site with so many sad stories and then I click to see what doctor they used and the guy has 3 stars! DONT DO THAT TO SAVE MONEY! This is your body and you are doing this to enhance yourself. Get it done right the first time.
Updated on 7 Sep 2021:
Before I had small breasts. Nothing in the upper pole but a little something on the bottom of my breast. Nipples were always sensitive and now I find that they are even more so.
I almost selected a size around 275 and I am so so glad I chose the most typical size of around 360.
I Can’t Say Enough Good Things About Dr. Shafer and His Staff!
From my very first consultation, I knew that I was choosing the right doctor.
The office is absolutely beautiful and everyone I spoke to was extremely kind and patient with me.
I emailed back and forth with Tedra, who was so sweet even when I changed my date a bunch of times out of nervousness and other factors.
I wanted a breast augmentation since my breasts were very different sizes, even down to the areolas. Dr. Shafer informed me that I would need a lift as well, and I was a bit worried about the lollipop scar that I would get from that. He assured me that the scar would look great after it healed, and that his office does complimentary laser scar treatment after your procedure if you choose to get it!
My nurse, Amy, who I met a week before my procedure, was also incredible. She was available 24/7 for any questions or concerns I had and had the most positive energy that you could want in someone who is helping you. She sent me home with a care package with hibiclens, arnica, and a list of a plethora of prescriptions to be filled for my after care. I am SO glad that they prescribed all of the ones they did because every pill had a role for me and I know that not everyone is prescribed the same things.
On the day of my procedure, I was really nervous, but because of everyone’s kindness, my nerves were quickly eased. Even the anesthesiologist was sweet as she stuck the IV in my arm and told me to talk about a nice place I would be dreaming about. Basically as soon as she put it in, I fell asleep. It felt like I was only asleep for 2 minutes and then I woke up with new boobs! They weren’t crazy high on my chest to start with, either. They were high, of course, but I didn’t have the boxy boob look. I was given blue cherry Gatorade (I mention the flavor because in my stupor, I thought it was the best tasting thing ever) and water. I was actually told that Dr. Shafer was able to do my lift without the lollipop incision! I was SO happy! They did the lift on just my right breast and added a 485cc implant to it. They added a 505cc implant to the left.
Another thing is, my parents and sister came with me on the day of my procedure and ogled at how beautiful the office was. They were given complimentary snacks, drinks, and coffee as they waited for me. They were also let up to the rooftop area that has a stunning view of the entire city. Dr. Shafer and Nurse Amy came out to meet them before the surgery to calm any nerves that they may have had. My family loved their kindness and couldn’t stop talking about how much they loved everyone and everything about the office!
I’ll end my review here because I could just go on and on about how amazing my experience was. My breasts look AMAZING and I’m only 2 weeks post op today. So I can’t wait to see what they will look like when they’re fully healed!
I am overwhelmed with emotions of how amazing my entire experience was
I do not even know where to begin, from my 1st consultation with Dr. Shafer to recovery, I am overwhelmed with emotions of how amazing my entire experience was and of course, my AMAZING outcome. Dr. Shafer and his entire staff are wonderful, caring, and professional, all while making you feel part of their family.
As someone who is more on the anxious side, I never felt embarrassed by my 1,000 questions but rather comforted and even welcomed to ask more. Special shout out to the surgical coordinator Tedra, the RN Amy, the anesthesiologist Dr. John and of course the artist himself, Dr. Shafer.
There are not enough words to thank Dr. Shafer and his entire staff, they have truly made my dream come true.
Perfection from Beginning to End
Dr. Shafer and his entire staff were supportive, kind, and comfortable during the whole process. I had breasts poorly impacted with scar tissue by a bad car accident. Dr. Shafer not only demanded an A+ result but his staff was a comfort before, during, and after. I wouldn’t recommend anyone else for perfection.
I had a breast lift with dr Schafer and buccal fat removal
I had surgery on surgery in September 2020. I had a breast lift with dr Schafer and buccal fat removal. I have a vein now in my face showing after fat removal. Dr Shafer will try a laser to resolve seems like a side effect of the buccal fat being gone to cover veins. We did 4 laser treatments for aureola scars.
Consultation review: Just a Wonder Doctor and Staff
I arrived early for my 2:30 appt. The staff was so lovely. They gave me paperwork to fill out and suggested I go wait in the waiting room. Within 5 min I was already being guided to the gorgeous exam room. Dr. Shafer was warm & very easy to talk to. I mean, he was so lovely that I would do the surgery tomorrow if money wasn't an issue. He told me I'm a candidate for a mommy makeover, he also mentioned I have Diastasis, that can be corrected during the tummy tuck. I would like a breast reduction, tummy tuck & 360 lipo. The wonderful coordinator came to the room to discuss cost. The cost which I estimated would be 25k, their cost is 37k. So I am going to get second & third opinions before I invest in myself. I'm just concerned that my future face lift wont happen because I spent too much on my body.
Updated on 18 Mar 2021:
Dr. Shafer Clinic used my quote on their IG!!
I was scrolling through IC & all the sudden said "That's my route!"
It's the truth!!
Can't wait to get my Mommy Makeover.
Thanks a Million Dr. Shafer
My scars are almost non existent
I am 7 weeks post op breast augmentation (the picture is 1 week post op ) and they look amazing! Dr Shafer is super nice answers all your questions and is an amazing surgeon. I got the sientra 385 cc under the muscle moderate profile and I couldn’t be happier I had a small 34C and now I’m a D and they look super natural (that’s what I was going for) my scars or almost non existent and recovery wasn’t to bad. His staff is wonderful too especially Teadra she answered all of my annoying emails and questions and I appreciate that! If you want perfect breasts then Dr Shafer is the right doctor.
Life changing!!! My body looks more proportionate
I don't even know where to start, Dr. Shafer is honestly so talented and brilliant. As a woman in her early 20's my insecurities kept increasing no matter how I hard I worked for my "goal body." I met Dr. Shafer when I was 22 to discuss a few surgeries I was interested in having done. I've had a total of 3 surgeries with him. Two being BBL's (Brazilian butt lift) transferring stomach and back fat into my butt and one being a breast reduction and lift. Everything looks natural and AMAZING. My body looks more proportionate, my back pain has gone away and I'm more confident than I have ever been. The ability to wake up and love myself and my body was a feeling I never use to feel until I met Dr. Shafer. Dr. Shafer and his entire staff made me feel important, comfortable and excited for everything to come. I have a lot of trust in his work because he truly loves what he does and the results are WORTH IT. I will have to add some photos soon!!!! Thank you Dr. Shafer!!!!
Updated on 10 Mar 2021:
Adding some photos to show before and after my BBLS done by Dr. Shafer. My before pic shows I started from NOTHING to my after photos of fullness, shape and plump. He’s amazing and trust worthy!!!!! I’m obsessed and thankful for my results.
Consultation Review: He's a sweetheart!
I am just reviewing my experience during the consult with this doctor. I was really impressed with him. Very nice person and very easy to talk to. He answered all my questions and spent a good amount of time with me. Some surgeons rush consults and he didn't. When I asked him about lipo he said I didn't need it. He doesn't try to get you to do things you don't need which I really appreciated and I trust his opinion completely! I really like him but I am still in the consult process so I am not sure if I will go to him. I do recommend considering him to consult with, you won't be disappointed. He has a gentle bedside manor. His coordinator was great to deal with too, as I asked additional questions after I left and she answered all. I have been on multiple consults and his personality and his office staff beat them all! He's a sweetheart!
Dr Shafer is a life changer : )
I am 46 and a bit over weight but comfortable in my size and aging. But then, almost over night my cute double chin was givin you Mitch McConnell vibes and it was depressing. After reading reviews on realself I thought I would need a face lift. I did a lot of research on doctors and even met a couple of them and no one seemed right. Finally, I found Dr Shafer. It was his surgical coordinator, Tedra who drew me in at first. A good human, I have no tolerance for assholes and she was real and kind. Dr. Shafer is lucky to have her. Then I met Dr Shafer and he is has a great big smile and positive energy. When I explained that a I was not ready for facelift/necklift he told me neck lipo was gong to make a huge difference and I was so happy. I thought for sure that after seeing my profile he'd level set my expectations and tell me that I'd need the facelift. He said there were a couple editions to consider, buccal fat removal and a small chin implant. The next day I agreed to all 3. So 11 days ago Dr Shafer changed me from the inside out! So much love, so much gratitude, feel so blessed.
Dr. Shafer is the MOST AMAZING Plastic Surgeon in NYC!!!!
Dr. Shafer is an amazing, 5+ star plastic surgeon in my opinion. He has performed reconstruction breast augmentation on me starting with something you would see on "Botched" and created a masterpiece. He also performed a surgery on my daughter to perfection and exceeded our expectations. I have seen Dr. Shafer for Fillers and Botox as well. Whatever Dr. Shafer does, he does to perfection with kindness, compassion, patience, and he is a true professional. His office staff is amazing, lovely, kind, and flexible. His new office is beyond beautiful and state of the art, with a gorgeous sun deck on the roof and a full surgical center right inside his office . Dr. David Shafer is the ONLY plastic surgeon I would use for the services he provides!! He is a truly kind person, family man, and honest man with great integrity! He has true compassion for his patients and their circumstances. He truly cares about improving upon the lives of his patients and personally sees them through from consultation to completion. I couldn't possibly recommend him more!!!! Hope you'll see him soon!!!
Breast Augmentation and Lipo of the Abdominal Area
I am 39 yrs old, always had small boobs, I was not even a full B-cup. I’ve always worn padded and push up bras. So I decided to have a breast augmentation. I researched Dr Shafer on Real Self and his reviews caught my attention. So I booked the consultation. The experience was amazing from start to finish. After the consultation with Dr Shafer, he made me feel so comfortable, that I scheduled my surgery a week later. His staff is the best, the surgical coordinator, the nurse, the anesthesiologist, I mean everyone. The day of surgery I was very nervous and everyone made me feel so comfortable, and Dr Shafer assured me I would be fine, and yes I was. I am so happy with my results, and recovery wasnt bad. Minimum pain, and I was off of pain meds within a few days. I want to thank Dr Shafer and his staff, and would highly recommend a consultation with him. 10 Stars in my books !!!
Don’t Think Twice...
I have been going to Dr.Shafer for years for fillers and botox. I always wanted to have my legs done but was always nervous. It was the best thing I have ever done. Dr Shafer has a wonderful bedside manner and he’s an amazing surgeon. You’re in the best hands with Dr. Shafer and his staff.
Mommy Makeover, no kids :)
I just passed my 3 month post-op milestone, and I am so pleased with the results. Absolutely ZERO regrets, and would not hesitate to recommend Dr Shafer and his staff for the best care. I met with 6 surgeons in NYC for consultations in April and May of this year - and I selected Dr Shafer based on his experience, demeanor, the professionalism and accessibility of his staff, and the kicker was a personal recommendation from a friends mom who has worked in the field and said Dr S is hands down, the top choice for body contour work.
I should also mention -- I was very close to selecting a different surgeon, but after asking around, discovered he PAYS people to sign a non-disclosure agreement if they the kit happy with their results. This surgeon has very high reviews here in Real Self, so I wold urge anyone considering a major procedure to ask round and ty to find someone that you can talk to that used the doctor you are considering -- and not just online reviews.
I have waited awhile to post here but will be including photos and details of my experience.
Updated on 21 Nov 2020:
My surgeon was Dr Shafer -
I met with 5 other surgeons prior to making my selection. I found out later that one of those surgeons had a dissatisfied patient sign a document that she would not leave a negative review and he paid her to not post anything. I should also mention she has since had three corrective surgeries.
Amazing. 10/10 Would Recommend
Had a breast augmentation with dr shafer two weeks ago. I am obsessed!! after one week I was back to work with minimal pain and no strong meds needed. The scar is so minimal and not an issue . the size is perfect and suits me well although I had thought I potentially wanted bigger initially but dr shafer advised against it due to my smaller frame. I recovered quickly and am so so pleased with my result and only wish I had done it sooner!
5 Stars —You never look overfilled or weird, which is always a concern.
Great Doctor! I had fillers and botox done on several occasions. Beautiful work and great bedside manner. You never look overfilled or weird, which is always a concern. My friends always tell me that I look fresh and youthful and ask me what my secret is. Open secret: Dr. Shafer.
Changed my Life
Having had surgery with Dr Shafer 6 months previous (tummy tuck) I spoke to him about a breast reduction and lift.
I had wanted this surgery for many years (previously I couldn’t afford it) but more importantly I had been nervous about myths of your nipples having to be removed and repositioned. This is not the case.
Dr Shafer spent time with me, explained what the surgery would entail . Tedra also explained that recovery time would be similar to my previous surgery and most likely I would not require drains (I did not need drains).
I booked in for the surgery at a time when I knew I had some down time. I had circsa 500g removed from each breast and reduced my cup size from a DD to a C cup.
Dr Shafer had explained to me that my breast tissue was dense - this explains why , no matter how much weight I have lost over the years, my breast cup has never changed. Also the pertness of my breasts now is magically. I have never had this in my life.
Dr Shafer is brilliant and his bedside manner truly sets him apart. He has also surrounded himself with a fabulous team, who are all really personable and make you feel welcome.
I would not hesitate to recommend Dr Shafer over and over.
Dr Shafer and His Team - Faultless
From start to finish, I cannot fault Dr David Shafer and his team.
I did a lot of research of various Dr’s however I met with Dr Shafer and I knew immediately that I trusted him with the surgery. I had a mini tummy tuck - having had liposuction done several years before (before I moved to the USA). I always knew I would need this as a finishing touch.
The results - remarkable. For sure, better than I had expected. He is a genius, coupled with compassion- what more could you ask for.
I had my surgery July 2019. 6 months post Op and I am thrilled.
Post Op care was brilliant. His team are fantastic. So friendly, caring and responsive.
My recovery was a lot smoother than I had imagined. I followed the advice given.
The drains were removed 1 week post op.
I required minimal pain medication throughout and would highly recommend Dr Shafer.
My scar is healing tremendously well and is barley visible.
I am now recovering from a second surgery with Dr Shafer (will cover under a separate review) - a breast reduction. However will also be 5 stars!
Picture below was taken before (left) and 12 days post surgery.
I'm finally taking steps to get breasts I like looking at.
I've never liked my breasts. I never liked the minimal size and the shape especially, and after struggling (and overcoming) an eating disorder in my teen years, my breasts had experienced so much shrinkage and growth like a rollercoaster that my current breasts look to me as if they've undergone a battle that doesn't fit the rest of my athletic body, but more importantly, just reminds me of the years of torment and sadness I put my body through.
I am proud to have overcome my eating disorder for a long time now, but the last vestige of proof I cannot ignore is in my breasts. I hate even looking at myself naked in a mirror before a shower because I just see sadness and a chest that doesn't fit how I feel, or reflect my vitality. I only wear push-up padded bras (sometimes WITH chicken cutlets) in public to achieve any cleavage (which I find so gorgeous), and I cannot feel comfortable being intimate with anyone just standing there topless, face-on. It's not common for me to have sex without my bra on, and this sucks because I find breasts very sexy... just not my own.
What stopped me from putting an end to living a life under a tit-mask? Fear. I've had the means to do it for some time, but I made so many excuses for not doing it. I have anxiety disorder, so I just told myself I might die from the anesthesia. I grew up telling myself that fake breasts were "tacky", so I just told myself that I didn't want to be "one of those girls". I thought about how expensive it is and told myself I couldn't afford it. But I finally cut out all of that noise and began listening to my heart: it told me I only have one life, and every day I wait to start living the life I want is a mistake. I am 29, almost 30. If not now, when?
November 5th, 2019 to be exact.
I booked my surgery after my gut, intuition, and intelligence said "YES" after my consultation with Dr. Shafer, who has been doing my fillers magnificently for about 5 years. He was the only surgeon I consulted with because not only did I know he was a master, but he knew me and my aesthetic personally, I've never had an experience with him that was anything but perfection, and I did not want to fix what wasn't broken. He used the 3D imaging on me, and it was incredible to see my body improve from what they are to what I hoped they can be.
I won't be finalizing my size choice until my pre-op, but as of now (and seeing different sizes on me via 3D imaging) I am comfortable with 385cc's. I currently fill out a Victoria's Secret 32D modestly when the straps are tightened, but my breasts lack volume and density so they do not look more than a small B to me standing up. I showed my doctor images of Dita Von Teese as "boob goals", but her's would be the largest I'd go. A touch smaller might be perfect; not aesthetically, but because I sincerely don't want to be in constant discomfort because of implants that are too large for my body. I know that my doctor is a pro though, he understands my goals visually, and he will not put his name and talent to breasts that are wrong for my stature and goals.
I plan to keep everyone posted here; the diary-like entries of other women who have gotten breast augmentations has helped me prepare so much, so I hope I can give back!
Update soon!
Updated on 1 Oct 2019:
Something I like seeing people write about here along their surgical journeys is the process of telling others about this decision. For some it may be super easy and exciting, for others it may be worrisome. Excruciating even.
Luckily for me, I drank a cocktail before telling almost everyone, which made it a touch easier.
The first person I told once I was positive I wanted to go through with the process was my mother. We went to the theater one night while she was in town; we're very close and I can talk to her about anything and she has always been supportive of me, but for some reason, I was so nervous to tell her about my plans and potentially facing her disappointment. It's weird talking about your boobs and your desire to have bigger, sexier ones to your mom, but this is where I am in life. We were waiting for the show to begin in our seats and had about 10-15 minutes until the lights lowered, so I just decided to tell her. Her face seemed nervous and not very happy to hear it, but she listened, and I told her that I did not want to look silly with huge circus boobs, I just wanted to improve myself and fix something I've been deeply insecure about it. When I said "I want to fix the last bit of my body that I hate", she said "Then 100% do it." and she hugged me. She knows what I've been through with eating disorders and hating my body in the past, and how far I have come to recover from it in the years since. I have kept her up to date with the whole process, sent her an image of my 3D stimulation with the implants I want, and she is very supportive and happy for me. She will be the one taking care of me and my little dog after my surgery as well. I am SO relieved.
Then I told my older sister, who is far less aesthetically-driven than me and generally has a "zero effs given" attitude with vanity. She also had an outdated idea about implants, thinking they automatically mean big, round, unnatural and distracting apparatuses glued to the chest. I explained the process and my desires and why I was deciding to do this, and she supported it, saying "It's your money, do what you want." That should automatically give you an idea about where her eff$ are usually given.
Told my best friend, who has never seen me naked despite traveling to 3 countries together over 10 years, and was worried about her reaction too. I knew she'd be supportive, but she also deals with body insecurities and thinks I have a "perfect body", and I didn't want to make it seem like I wasn't grateful for what I look like now, I just reiterated that I have never felt comfortable about my chest and finally decided it was the right time for me to do something about it. She reminded me that I am beautiful as I am, but it is my decision and she is there for me 100%. I'll get to telling my other friends when it's closer to the surgery date.
I am single at the moment so don't need to deal with telling a boyfriend (which I would have found excruciating since I like to project uber body-confidence in a relationship), but I did tell the guy I am closest to and have a sort-of-not-really long distance thing with. I was scared to tell because I didn't want to seem weak; not that plastic surgery is anything weak whatsoever, but I projected in my own head this idea for so long that to get my boobs done would be to admit to myself I am not this natural sex goddess I've led others to think I am/ feel I am, and so it was hard to be real about it. But I just did, and not surprisingly, he was supportive, grateful to have earned my trust to tell him, reiterated that he loved my natural breasts, and because he's a straight guy, was excited to see the results that I desire.
The final step for this week is telling dear old Dad.*
*EDIT: I just got a text from Mom saying "I just told dad and he's fine with it".
*facepalm*
I did say she could tell him if she wants, but I didn't think she'd do it today! In a way it's less awkward for her to tell him, and I knew he would not be against it or be ashamed of me or disown me, but like, it's gotta be weird for a dad to learn his youngest daughter wants bigger hooters.
I have a feeling people at work may ask what the "surgery" I have planned is once I send out my coverage emails, and I'm debating whether to tell them the truth (my company is pretty laid-back and casual), but I also may just keep the specifics to myself. I work in advertising and while it's a young company that isn't super corporate or conservative at all, I'm not sure I want my co-workers (and other people in the company since people might gossip) to know, and therefore judge me or focus on my body more. I already am glammed up for work, I don't want to add something else to the mix to make me seem unprofessional, which is another reason why I want to demolish the patriarchy... but that's for another blog :)
To anyone else dealing with telling people about their
Updated on 3 Nov 2019:
It is very surreal to think that I only have a couple more days of life with my natural breasts. It's emotional, really. On one hand I spent so much time disliking their appearance and feeling extremely self-conscious about them which is why I so eagerly booked my surgery after years of consideration and research. But on the other hand, I feel a bit sad. Health is first and foremost in our life, and I am extremely lucky to have never had any illness caused by my breasts. They have never been what I prefer aesthetically, but at the same time, they never did me any harm, and they only did their best.
In undertaking cosmetic surgery, I am reflecting on how much gratitude I have for my health, and the luck (bordering on audacity) to be able to choose to make my normal breasts even "prettier" when there are so many people who must have their breasts removed or mutilated because of a disease that is far beyond their control. I am extremely lucky, and as weird as it sounds, I want my body and my breasts to know that I am grateful, I love them, and I don't mean to insult them by getting foreign objects placed into my body.
Another thing that's hitting hard is the reality that a bigger chest is going to impact me in the mundane ways I don't think lots of us think about when we decide we want bigger breasts. Will I miss small breasts when I'm laying in a weird position in bed writing in my journal? Will I miss them when I am painting and don't have to worry about heavy breasts putting even more strain on my back? Will I look in the mirror after surgery and think that I insulted my body? I am a worrier, I admit, but I have to recognize all of these thoughts and face them.
But the bottom line is, in my gut, I have been so excited at the thought of having nicer breasts, as someone who has always been obsessed with the beauty of the female form, and always dreamed of having my chest look like the pin-up models of the '40s and '50s. I appreciate my breasts now, but I do not think they are very beautiful and I would never feel comfortable standing naked in front of a lover the way they look now. I want to look the way I feel inside, and I know that surgery is the right thing for me.
The next few updates will be more useful and less diary-like, but I do think it's important to share your more personal feelings and worries here right alongside the technical stuff; it's important that women seeking breast augmentations do not feel alone in any of the thoughts they have before taking the plunge.
Updated on 5 Nov 2019:
Morning of surgery:
I got to the facility at 9:15 with my mom, went right into a room to talk to a nurse about consent and to sign forms, then she gave me the garments to change into and a cup to make a urine sample in after she took me to the bathroom. Oh, a pro tip: wear underwear to your surgery because the disposable one size fits all thong was both huge and offered like zero coverage. Might as well have been nekkid.
After that, my surgeon Dr. Shafer came in (with a wonderful and excited attitude, I might add) to go over my selected size, gave me reiterate my aesthetic goals, and mark up my breasts.
Then I spoke to the anesthesiologist, who just so happened to be one of the cutest anesthesiologists my mom and I had ever seen. I informed him of all the medications I have, health history, and told him about my panic attacks and history of waking up from anesthesia. He was incredibly reassuring and let me know that they were able to help calm me down should anything happen, but were going to control my medications in a way that greatly lessened the likelihood of an anxiety attack as I came to.
Very quickly after that, I was assisted into the OR! I was helped onto the operating table bed where my surgeon was lightly playing some Nirvana and No Doubt, much to my delight. His nurse strapped my legs in (it took a lot for me to not make an insane asylum joke) and put a heated blanket over me as well as massagers for my feet and legs. I was extremely comfy! The anesthesiologist told me he was going to begin by giving me something to relax, and I looked to see if it was the anesthesia but it was clear— no matter, because it seems like in about 30 seconds I was asleep. I hadn’t slept much the night before, so I’m fairly sure that Prince Valium knocked me out before Anna Sthesia did.
Next thing I can remember is being in the recovery room wearing the recovery bra with compression gauze wrapped tightly around my new big boobs. The room was nice and dark and warm with my mom sitting nearby. Apparently I was talking to my surgeon a few times when he checked in on me afterwards (and apparently I was asking him very smart questions) but I have ZERO recollection of this.
My mom was able to get a video I do NOT remember where I reassured my father and grandma that I didn’t get “circus tits” and when my mom tried to wrap it up like a news anchor changing the subject after an interviewee says something wildly inappropriate, I say “But I have so many more things to say and feel and experience before you stop recording”. And then I instantly become distracted by wanting my phone so I could listen to songs that remind me of my dog. Drugs are a trip.
I was in the recovering room for about an hour in total before I felt clear headed and awake enough to take a car home with my mom, who had flown into my city to care for me this week. I cannot imagine not having someone here with me 24/7 to take care of me in the first day: more on that in a moment.
I was honestly not in much pain for the car ride or for a good few hours when I got home. Obviously my arms and chest were tight and it hurt to adjust myself in bed and I needed help pulling my pajama pants on and off to use the bathroom (thanks, Ma!) but I was spending most of the time resting and still anyway, which was very comfortable. I took one Oxy with food and lots of water a couple hours after getting home, and in four hours I took another.
About an hour after that I was still hurting as the anesthesia and OR meds were fully wearing off, so my mom gave me a half of another pill, albeit trepidatiously since she is very aware of how addictive these pills are.
About 20 minutes after the half pill I felt super woozy, as if I were about to faint, and it turned into the feeling that I was about to throw up: I began sweating, got light headed, felt clammy and cold, and the pain in my chest became a non issue as my body braced for this new, ugly sensation. My mom propped my feet up and had me lay down and close my eyes and took off my jacket. Thankfully I didn’t throw up (but I recommend having a bin nearby your bed in case) and within a couple of minutes my color came back and I felt better and slept.
It’s been 6 hours since that last pill and a half, around 11pm, and I woke up to pretty bad pain. I laid in bed for a few minutes on my phone not wanting to get up, but when I did, HOLY HELL.
HOLY.
TAPDANCING.
HELL.
My pain was like a 10, from my under boobs to my clavicle and down my arms to my elbows were incredibly tight and sore, and my right breast (which I had been using the pecs of more than the other since my laptop was in my right side) was in even more pain. I felt pain earlier in the right side suture as well, not the left, so it made sense that it was extra sore. I just took one and a half Oxys and am going to go back to sleep.
I know that “morning boob” is going to kick my entire ass, but I’m just keeping in mind that I’m a tough cookie, I’m so thrilled to have improved my breasts, and this is just what it takes to get to the other side. Goodnight!
Updated on 7 Nov 2019:
My doctor said I would be able to remove my Ace bandage yesterday so last night I slept with only my surgical bra on. I’ll add a photo of me on day 2 when I went to clean my incisions- obviously my muscles are tight (and so sore) so I think the implants look smaller than they will, so patience is the name of the game!
I am weaning off the Oxy and switching to Extra Strength Tylenol today since I’m going to work from home after taking two days off to sleep and rest.
I’m regaining sensation in the sides of my breasts and feeling the ache of the incisions under the breasts, but they’re somewhat itchy so that’s a good sign of healing!
I’m really happy with the progress so far and trust that my surgeon knows what’s best for me as far as not advising me to massage my breasts until the one week post op appointment and telling me to take off the Ace compression bandage after 24 hours. I figured I’d need more support holding the implants in place (other than the bra) but I know that everyone is different and my surgeon knows best for what he did to my body. The implants are a great size, I hope they stay filling out the upper poles a bit (and I love that I have some chest cleavage!) and I’m just extremely happy that my surgery and healing went well and that pain is minimizing!
Reminder, pics are from day 2.
Updated on 7 Nov 2019:
Updated on 9 Nov 2019:
My surgery was Tuesday morning and it’s now Saturday evening: here’s an organized update!
DRESSINGS AND BRA
I am still wearing my surgical bra 24/7 except to apply ointment onto and around my wound dressings (which I cannot remove) and to shower, which I successfully did last night! It feels great to be topless if only because it’s a reprieve from the constricting nature of the bra, and it’s a trip how comfortable I feel topless after a lifetime of not knowing what that’s even like.
PAIN
I am not taking the OxyContin anymore and am perfectly fine with extra strength Tylenol. Still taking my antibiotics. I developed bruising between my breasts and underneath them where the breastbone is (likely from the band of my bra) but the bruising is yellowing which means it’s at a later healing stage. Getting up and out of bed was only terrible for the first two days; there’s some soreness throughout the day (and especially if I flex a pec too hard) but definitely nothing too bad. My back is aching a bit from sleeping on two pillows and I’m really looking forward to sleeping flat on my back again!
APPEARANCE
My breasts look bigger today than they did the second day, and it’s clear that there is both some swelling and the obvious tightness of the chest muscles that cause a bit more upper pole fullness before the “drop and fluff”, which I have a feeling will make my breasts look absolutely perfect. My nipples are slightly pointing down because of the implant still sitting high, but again, I can see that when my muscles and tissue adjust and the implants fall into their pockets they will be absolutely gorgeous and exactly where they need to be. They are also obviously still a bit hard and do not behave like my natural breasts yet; I look forward to them being more mobile, jiggly, and soft!
SENSATION
I pretty much have feeling back in my right breast but my left breast is still pretty numb from the nipple down; I can’t feel the nipple yet but have sensation at the top of my left breast. I’m left handed so perhaps it’s related, but all I know is, numb nipples feels pretty freaking weird.
Incisions are itchy which is a good thing as this means my body is healing them, and as I’ve mentioned, I have not removed my dressings but have been great with applying ointment twice a day around and on top of the steri-strips.
I’m working from home and able to pick up my chihuahua to put her on the bed and such as well as take her for short walks, but I’m not pushing myself to go out to bars or friends houses just yet. I’m still extremely careful about not putting undue strain on myself while healing so I don’t do anything to potentially jeopardize my healing. I am confident that Dr. Shafer did a wonderful job on me and that the rest of the success of my surgery lies in me following his orders, being patient, and perhaps a bit of good luck.
Updated on 15 Nov 2019:
Don't have a ton of time so I'll make this quick!
Dr. Shafer's expertise with breast augmentation is truly in the results, and even if it's too early to see the final results, my experience so far with healing has been extremely easy relatively speaking and it's obvious that his skill and knowledge is a huge part of this.
For example, I did not have to wear the compression band over my bra after the first 24 hours, and after my one week post-op appointment, I don't need to massage my breasts either because the implants are literally already in the position they should be and now it is just up to time for my muscles to relax and the implants to drop and fluff.
I can move much easier, there's no pain in the morning when I get up, and there's basically no bruising. My incisions are TEENY and placed perfectly, and are doing great with no issues or concerns. I naturally have some soreness when I walk and am buying a slightly more supportive sports bra to reduce that soreness, as I walk a lot in my daily commute and life.
They look better each day, feel a tiny bit softer little by little. It still gives me some shooting pain to bend over low, but that's also to be expected. I am really happy with the size, and every time I think I may be prematurely getting a whiff of boob greed, I take heed of Dr. Shafer's words that to go bigger than 385cc on my small body would put us into the territory where my healing has more risks, my recovert is prolonged, and the issues get higher. I trusted him and I am very glad I did. It blows my mind that I was able to show him a slew of reference photos and he could confidently recommend the size needed to get me to that look.
Very grateful right now!
Updated on 17 Nov 2019:
Here’s a photo of me at almost 2 weeks. I’m so, so pleased and can’t believe the difference.
Updated on 5 Dec 2019:
I'll try to keep this brief and helpful!
*WHERE I'M AT ONE MONTH POST-OP*
- Pain has largely disappeared
- Hypersensitivity of the right nipple is gone, but the left boob from the armpit down is still pretty numb, but definitely improving
- My breasts are super soft on the sides and bottom! But still not very squishy at the top, which is normal because that is where the muscle was disrupted.
- I am rotating the surgical bra with 2 sports bras, both molded with no underwire. I love that the tiny bit of padding with a molded bra can make a real difference to the size, but I also am very happy with the size of them with zero padding. I can't believe I can achieve this look without any push-up!
- I can lay on my side on my bed to type on the computer, which I was itching to do because my back was becoming sore from always having to be at a desk or propped up with pillows.
- I have those Mondor's cords under both breasts, they were really painful a week ago but are dissipating, as is the feeling like I can't stretch out because of the tightness of the cords. Those are improving.
- They are looking more and more natural each week! From the third to the fourth week I had such bad skin shedding on my boobs, it was like (get ready to be grossed out) parmesan cheese grated into my bra each night. But that's definitely subsiding too, but my skin is still on the shiny side. I trust that since my skin was quite taut it will take a few more weeks for my skin to stretch.
- I have no more soreness when I walk and don't even notice my chest while I'm working for the most part!
- I can comfortably pick up my chihuahua, but still find it somewhat uncomfortable to carry her like I used to where her butt is in the crook of my elbow and her body is leaning on my chest with her head on my shoulder, so I try not to do that much. I am still careful that she doesn't crawl on my chest and she's learning not to play around my chest.
- Reaching and showering is completely fine. Of course I'm still careful, but I can do everything I used to be able to do around the house now.
I think back to the second and third post-op days where I couldn't pull my pants up or down, couldn't flush the toilet, couldn't open or close a car door, couldn't open a prescription pill bottle, couldn't get out of bed using my arms, couldn't wash my hair, couldn't sleep through the night, couldn't zip my jacket all the way up. All of that was temporary.
I also just want to say that I was definitely experiencing the blues towards the end of the first week post-op and for some of the second. For me, it was a mix of the pain, my mom leaving after taking care of me for three days straight, being hugely bloated, and looking in the mirror and seeing breasts that were clearly not amazing looking (yet). It's normal. You invested SO much in this and to not have instant gratification is tough! It's a process though and you have to remember to stay positive, to follow your surgeon's instructions to a T, and know that you can still enjoy and live your life before your new breasts are fully settled!
Dr Shafer Has Helped Me BIG Time!
Dr Shafer is a great dr and a great guy. He has helped me out tremendously. My penis was average size, harmless penis. Now, after getting Dr Shafer's filler injections, which have enlarged the width of my penis, my penis is a frequent source of compliments..."it's the perfect size" "fits so well" etc...
I will let you use your imagination, but lets just say I'm living my best life and I owe a lot of my recent successes to Dr Shafer. I'm certainly more confident.
You won't find a nicer plastic surgeon than Dr. Shafer. I'm glad that I found his practice. Thank you Dr!
Broken capillaries gone after FIRST treatment!
This review is for Graceanne, the senior esthetician who did my vbeam treatment for broken capillaries. I have had these for almost 15 years and they were always so visible. I had gone to other doctors for treatments before but never saw significant improvements. I even had 6-8 overpriced treatments with one “celebrity” doctor in New York and saw only 30% improvement, which was extremely disheartening because I thought that was the best result I could ever get. I was so upset until I found Graceanne. After my FIRST treatment, I couldn’t believe it when she said all broken capillaries were gone except for two stubborn ones because my other doctors said I wouldn’t be able to see any visible result until the third treatment. Guess what - they are wrong and Graceanne was right!!! After a week within the treatment, for the FIRST time in 15 years, I saw my clear, redness-free skin again and for the first time, I felt like I finally could stop struggling with my broken capillaries because I can always go back to zap these if they ever come back (plus their price for each treatment is so reasonable especially by comparison). I’m extremely grateful that I found Graceanne and would wholeheartedly recommend her for anyone who struggles with the same problem. She is extremely patient and would go the extra mile to make sure to zap all the smallest veins I spotted (which includes doing multiple treatments on one spot). Next I’m going to try facials with her!
Exceptional
A truly gifted and remarkable surgeon. From the moment you step into the office you are met with smiles. Not only is Dr. Shafer one of the most compassionate doctors you will ever meet but he also delivers outstanding results. I cannot fault a thing. My heartfelt thanks go to him and his team.
Experience Matters
You know how sometimes you get comfortable with 1 doctor or 1 procedure because it works for you and you're afraid to try something new just in case you hate the results... well I've been having botox and filler done conservatively for 4 years now. I've been happy with my results, but after reading some reviews decided to switch my practitioner to see Dr. Shafer. I'm so happy I did!!!!!! My results are even better than I could imagine. Zero bruising, very minimal swelling and the profile of my face with the same dermal filler product is sooo beautiful. Dr. Shafer's experience made the difference in my patient experience!
ONLY THE BEST ... Crê-me De La Crê -me
I recently (1/22/19) received a Tummy Tuck and flank Lipo with the AMAZING artist/ surgeon Dr. Shafer. Words can explain my experience from start to finish, beginning with his amazing professional staff specifically TEDRA! I am an out of state client that had to finagle travel, accommodations and appointments with the office and it was totally seamless. Then the experience gets even better because ultimately the true test is the results..... and let me say my body is better than I could have designed my self! I had and continued to have no pain at all didn’t even take one pain medication only Tylenol... crazy right but when you have such a talented Surgeon Dr. Shafer this is possible! I’m in the beauty industry and can completely and highly recommend Dr. Shafer and his amazing team! Nothing but the best!
Painless Breast Augmentation! So Happy!
I was already familiar with Dr. Shafer when I met with him for a breast augmentation consultation, because he’s done my fillers a few times already. However, I wanted to see a few different people for consultations for something so big. Unlike many other surgeons, I loved that he used 3D Vectra imaging, which took a digital photo of my torso, and allowed him and me to visualize what different sized and types of implants would look on me. We discussed different brands, my aesthetic goals, my concerns, etc. My husband is a doctor and I am a biostatistician and epidemiologist, so many of my questions were inquiring about potential health consequences, but many were strictly cosmetic concerns. He was so kind and helpful with everything.
On September 25th, I went to the surgical center ready for my augmentation. I was nervous, but the nurse he works with, who claimed she's been working with him for over a decade now, was one of the nicest people I ever met. My husband was with me, and it was the first time he met Dr. Shafer (his schedule didn't allow him to attend my consultation). My husband is a pulmonologist at NYU, so he is accustomed to surgeons with egos, but he was so surprised to see how impeccable Dr. Shafer’s bedside manners were. At the last minute, when we were torn between two breast sizes, Dr. Shafer said he will insert both during the surgery and use his expert opinion to decide which will suit my frame the most. Let me say, he nailed it! (Reference, we went with Natrelle Inspira round implants).
Let's fast-forward to post-surgery. I woke up from the surgery, with his wonderful nurse by my side. I'm sure they wanted me out of the surgery room sooner, but I don't do well with anesthesia, and it took me a while to get up. She was incredibly patient and walked my husband and me to our cab. I was somewhat uncomfortable during the ride home, but not in a lot of pain.
The one thing I have to say is that I am absolute wuss when it comes to pain, but this truly did not hurt as much as I expected. In fact, the recovery was almost too easy. After reading so many reviews on RealSelf, and even messaging some people directly, I was shocked at how easy mine was, given that I'm not particularly athletic or anything. Dr. Shafer discussed his technique at great length during my consultation, and it definitely did wonders. On a scale of 1-10, my pain never exceeded a 5. The swelling was minimal, I had zero bruising, and my scars are not too noticeable. In fact, he gives all his breast augmentation patients 3 free Vaser treatments to help lighten the scars.
In summary, Dr. Shafer is both a masterful injector and plastic surgeon. If you’re concerned about pain, don’t worry about it. This wasn’t my first plastic surgery. I had my nose done a few years ago before I moved to New York, and it was not such an easy recovery. I love my results, I respect his staff, I adore his bedside manners, and I trust him due his credentials and research experience. He’s a leader in plastic surgery and his publications speak for themselves. He trains residents at NYU, Columbia, Cornell, and Lenox Hill. Enough said. Couldn’t be happier!
10 Inches
I had the SWAG enlargement procedure which was performed under topical and local anesthesia. Procedure took about 30 minutes. I experienced moderate temporary swelling and bruising after the procedure. I got the Voluma XC. I saw immediate results after the surgery.
Updated on 3 Dec 2018:
I experienced moderate temporary swelling and bruising after the procedure. I got the Voluma XC. I saw immediate results after the surgery. I love the new length and girth. I’m thinking about getting a few more injections to make it bigger.
The Best Breast Surgeon!
After meeting with 3 other top plastic surgeons in Manhattan I decided to choose Dr. Shafer to do my mastoplexy (breast lift). I am so happy with the results! I am now 5 months post-op & I couldn’t be happier.Not only is Dr. Shafer an excellent surgeon but he has the best bedside manner. I was in his office every other week for at least 3 months after the surgery as we wanted to check out how I was healing & his office staff couldn’t be nicer. If you are looking to have an uplift or breast augmentation I would recommend Dr. Shafer. He is the best there is!!
WHAT A GREAT DOCTOR!
WHAT A GREAT DOCTOR! He is the best hands down. Two years ago a had a bad surgery ( breast argumentation with lift ) that was performed abroad and left my breasts deformed. After doing a lot of research on different doctors, I finally decided to go in for a consultation with Dr. Shafer and I couldn’t have made a better decision. Dr. Shafer is very knowledgeable, extremely kind, gentle and calm, I can’t say enough about him. The staff is amazing and I specially want to thank to Tedra and Daniella, they are very professional and super friendly. There’s nothing I do or say to express my appreciation and thankfulness for what he did for me, this surgery changed my life and I can’t thank him enough, I’m so thankful to Dr. Shafer and entire team. I had an excellent result and great experience,I highly recommend Dr. Shafer!!
They’re my go-to skincare dream team!
Dr. Shafer and his entire team could not have been any more professional, pleasant, helpful and nice to work with. He is so knowledgable and really great at listening to your concerns while offering his expertise when it comes to various treatments. Graceabbe (Senior aesthetician and facialist in Dr. Shafer’s office) is the absolute best. So welcoming and attentive. They’re my go-to skincare dream team!
Great Job!
Really a great job, your technical skill knowing the location and volume provided a very smooth and balanced result
Very impressed as the contour and girth is perfect
Very impressed as the contour and girth is perfect
I love how the penis size and shape looks perfectly natural
I really like the enhanced proportional girth, I love how the penis size and shape looks perfectly natural but with an excellent fullness. Added bonuses: given the abundance of skin around the base of the glans, I have a slight foreskin which is great looking and the filler weight and positioning promotes a longer, fuller flaccid length.
Finding David Shafer, was like stumbling into a gold mine in my back yard
I am a 71-year-old granny who has met a couple of the top Plastic Surgeons in New York City a decade or so ago. Finding David Shafer, was like stumbling into a gold mine in my back yard…
My experience with Dr. S was outstanding
My experience with Dr. S was outstanding. His staff was very nice and helpful.
I refer him to others without hesitation
Dr. Shafer was referred to me, and I refer him to others without hesitation. He is not only an expert plastic surgeon, but is able to put us at ease, reduce our stress, and make us look great.
My results look very natural
I recently had Botox with Dr. Shafer. It was my first time for any cosmetic procedure. I think he did a very nice job. My results look very natural.
My daughter told me that I look just the way she remembers meeting me
After my facelift, my daughter told me that I look just the way she remembers meeting me.
Really Happy with my Sexier Lips by Dr. David Shafer – Plus No Bruising. Ready for New Years Eve & 2016 – New York
I wanted a pick-me-up for 2016 and have wondered for a long time about adding a bit of sexy to my lips. Embarrassed to say — but Kylie Jenner’s new lips are what got me thinking. Dr. Shafer said many patients ask about hers so I felt better to hear that (I am in my 40s). My lips were fine before but a little boring so I thought why not try to look better. He started me with a numbing cream. I was so nervous my palms were sweating but I promise it didn’t hurt at all! Dr. Shafer was needle motions were gentle, relaxed. The shape is BEAUTIFUL and I got to look in a mirror several times during the process. He did my upper lip first, then lower, then a bit more to the upper. He used one full needle which is 1 cc (I asked – Juviderm ultra). He said he was sticking to my God given lip shape but just enhancing and that is what I got. I used an ice pack in Dr. Shafer’s office and then used two more at home for about 15 minutes. I do not have any bruising what’s so ever. I know every one is different but I look great NOW. There probably is some swelling but if so, it isn’t noticeable at all or a bad thing. This was just a great experience and I have much nicer lips. Dr. Shafer knows what he is doing and is so pleasant.
Breast Reduction and Lift F to B – New York
Brilliant yet compassionate physician with keen eye and architect’s skill for design. Dr. Shafer has reinvented the doctor-patient relationship and he and his staff treat patients as partners/equals. Most comfortable office, surgery and post op experience I’ve ever had… He and his team go the extra mile pre and post op so you never feel like a “number” or alone. A reduction and lift in breasts my size generally have high complication rates or less than optimal aesthetic outcomes – however in my case due to Dr Shafer’s skill they are even, beautifully shaped and with minimal scarring. Far exceeded my expectations.
My Beautiful Breasts at 54 Years!! – New York, NY
Dr. Shafer is wonderful. He is honest and warm. He was very thorough and took his time with me as I was trying to decide the shape and size. He was there for me, whenever I had a concern or question I got his reply within minutes. I highly recommend Dr. Shafer, you won’t be sorry.
perfect! – New York
I have been to many plastic surgeons/ dermotologists for botox and filler and Dr Shafer is by far the best!!!
I have never had any brusing or irritation.
Dr Shafer is gentle and knowledgable- even told me to wait on a few treatments i wanted to do as he felt i didnt need them just yet! Hard to find a Dr like this!!
Glad i did!!! Thank you Dr S!!!!
29 Year Old Woman Wants Her Body Back – New York, NY
He was very friendly, knowledgable, and honest. He let me know that my results will not be perfect. I don’t want perfection I just want something better than what I have now. He told me that all of my stretchmarks below the belly button will be removed in my tummy tuck. The stretchmarks above my belly button will remain but will be on the lower section of my stomach. I’m okay with my Mommy stripes. I just no longer want to see an old lady’s stomach when I look in the mirror. If he can give me a little piece of my old self back then I’ll love him forever!
Breast Lift- Dr. David Shafer – New York
I HIGHLY recommend Dr. Shafer for this procedure. Having a breast lift can be scary because of the scarring, but the way I look 2 weeks post op I truly believe I will have no visible scaring within the next few months. Thanks Dr. Shafer!!! All I can say is thank goodness you’re young because I’m going to need you in the future 🙂 I do not want to grow old gracefully 🙂
Non- Surgical Facelift – New York
Highly skilled injector and great bedside manner. Extremely knowledgable with all of the injectables.
Award Winning Solo Performer Desperate to Get Rid of Her Double Chin Finds Dr. Shafer and Her Life is Transformed! – New York
Firstly, as a surgeon, this man is a miracle worker, as he combines supreme surgical expertise with exquisite artistry. This, I’m sure, is the main reason why he is rated as the TOP in his field. But also, Dr. Shafer listens. He will sit and hear your concerns. He is extremely unusual in this way. It is clear by all who spend time with Dr. Shafer in a consultation that he is one of the most open-hearted and empathic human beings you will ever meet. And these character traits are evident, as well, in his entire staff. His coordinator Eileen is gifted at making you feel at ease and anxiety free — and her kindness is palpable. I will go so far as to call Dr. Shafer a genius. Finding Dr. Shafer is one of the LUCKIEST things to ever happen to me in my life.